Grace J Willow – 53

About me

Grace J Willow – Pleasure & Embodiment Guide, Sacred Disruptor.

I work with women 35-75+ who are ready to reclaim the parts of themselves they’ve shut down for too long — sensuality, pleasure, voice, desire, softness, power.

I’m wired to break barriers and create bonds that feel deeply safe, magnetic, and real. My work is rooted in dismantling shame and rebuilding intimacy from the inside out.

Whether you’ve been carrying sexual shame, navigating intimacy after menopause, or feeling emotionally disconnected in your relationships, I’m here to walk with you—gently and powerfully — back to your body, your truth, and your full aliveness.

Let’s turn the lights back on in places that have gone dim.

What Working Together Looks Like
Options for how we might work together:

🌺 1:1 Pleasure & Embodiment Immersions
🌺 Private Luxury Retreats
🌺 Virtual Courses & Workshops
🌺 Group Immersions

We work with the body. With breath. With energy.
With the sacred intelligence that lives within you.

What do you do and why do you do it?

My Journey: For 27 years, I have supported others through trauma healing.

But in the quiet moments, I realized: I wasn’t fully connected to me.

🌺 To my own body.
🌺 My sensuality.
🌺 My truth.
🌺 I’d shaped myself around others’ needs, desires, and expectations.

My body? A stranger. My pleasure? A mystery.

So I followed the call. Not for my career — for myself.

After struggling with pelvic pain for over 10 years, I became certified in Women’s Holistic Pelvic Care™, then enrolled in a year-long sacred sexuality course.

The following year, I enrolled in a year-long Sex, Love, and Relationship coaching program as well as a Women’s Integrated Health program (all while attending grad school for clinical mental health counseling), which led to full certification in Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching.

I had no intention to teach or coach. But working with women – LIGHTS. Me. Up.

This work is soul medicine. It’s transformative. Wild. Alive. Sacred.

And it changed everything.

This Is About More Than Just “Sexual Healing”
When I began to speak with other women — clients, friends, sisters — I saw the same pattern. They had done the work. The therapy. The shadow. The healing.

But something profound was missing: Embodiment. Intimacy. Permission to feel good.

There is a sacred gap between inner healing and embodied aliveness. Between trauma resolution and the reclamation of sensual joy.

That’s where this work lives.

What changed for you after age 50?

I started prioritizing myself, stopped putting others first, got REAL clear on who I am, what I’m about, what I want, and who’s going with me.

What would you tell the 20 or 30-year-old YOU?

Stop trying to please everyone else. Slow down. You’re right on track. Trust yourself. Stop listening to others’ advice (they aren’t living YOUR life).

What do you think you’ll tell yourself in retrospect at the end of your life?

Brava!

What impact do you think increased visibility can have on your business?

So many women are disconnected from their bodies, their desires, their pleasure (not just in the bedroom, but pleasure leading the way instead of fear or the “to do’ list). Women connected to their bodies, their desires, their pleasure (and prioritizing it) will make a tremendous impact in shifting the paradigm from force and effort in women’s leadership, to pleasure as a form of nervous system nourishment that yields quantum shifts in a woman’s life.

Who or what inspires you and why?

I’m inspired every single day by the courage everyday women exhibit in sloughing off the programming, reclaiming their voice, their power, their bodily and sexual autonomy. It’s pure magic!